Aiden's Advice Show (Starring: Slime) #112 [VIDEO]
Added 2025-02-17 17:30:57 +0000 UTCIntro
00:00:00 - heyyy pay piggies!!! (or pirates)
00:01:12 - slime tapped out of invincibles
00:03:15 - aiden went on so many dates
The Questions
00:05:08 - How do I exercise self control around food to lose weight?
00:21:31 - My partner got diagnosed with a life threatening disease the day after we started dating.
00:32:19 - Am I weird/obsessive for still thinking about a friend who’s ghosted me for over a year?
00:45:12 - I'm 23 and AFRAID of going to see Sabrina Carpenter.
00:56:10 - How do I make somewhere feel like home?
00:58:37 - Should I ask my coworker out?
Comments
oink oink
Joshua
2025-03-09 00:14:15 +0000 UTCThree dates on the same day should be a crime 😂
McZarya
2025-02-27 01:41:22 +0000 UTCNew viewer with an autoimmune disease - loved your responses to that question! <3
Jenn L
2025-02-24 23:13:43 +0000 UTCthis is the first episode i watch after upgrading to this tier and the beginning was very humbling
Maddox
2025-02-23 20:13:05 +0000 UTCMy girlfriend occasionally flares up from a vague autoimmune thing that won't get diagnosed for 10 more years and DAMN she's beautiful and I love her
cabbage
2025-02-22 10:36:55 +0000 UTCWith regards to the food question, I think that the best thing you can do for overcoming issues with overeating is to find out what food is currently meaning to you. When people are usually having issues with overeating, it's not always just because they're hungry all the time. For many people, food is a fun activity, it's a coping mechanism, and finding out what food is to you outside of sustenance can help you in starting to change behaviors. That was my first step anyway.
yuuekt
2025-02-20 15:33:21 +0000 UTCIn terms of the third question sometimes it’s not that the person changes it’s just life does. I am a friend that has ghosted for going on three years now and the initial reason is just that at a certain point I had too much shit going on and so something like online friends just weren’t high enough on the list to keep up with. I appreciate those people and the place they had in my life but that part of my life has passed and even though I think about them and I’m sure it wouldn’t be a bad thing to reach out I also don’t have a real reason. I can explain why I disappeared but it doesn’t mean I’m coming back so what’s the point.
carpetburns
2025-02-19 07:03:57 +0000 UTCSame here and I 100% agree. The easiest way, especially if you live by yourself, is changing your shopping routine. Weekly grocery shopping is a great way. Also, eating before you get groceries so you're less likely to impulse buy and cave to cravings. I got pretty degenerate at a certain point, I had newfound freedom, impulse driven ADHD, and disposable income. Snackies and Doordash turned me from a pretty tall guy with a bit too much meat on him, to a person I did not like to look at in the mirror. I'm still not what you'd call snatched and I eat Doordash and junk food, but I learned moderation and my relationship with food in general has changed after learning the bare minimum about nutrition and calorie intake/estimations.
FlavourFlavianSeacaster
2025-02-19 06:42:42 +0000 UTCI wanted to comment on the second question about your partner having a disease. I think slime is fully right, being with someone for the last years of their life is so much more fulfilling than anything. A way my wife phrased it is “I would rather have loved 100 people and be heart broken every time, than never have loved before.”
Dallin Stoddard
2025-02-19 01:55:55 +0000 UTCI deal with food addiction as well. Slime is pretty right. You have to not have access to those foods. You can't eat them if they aren't there. That's easier to say then do tho.
Jongy
2025-02-18 22:33:19 +0000 UTCWhy does slime saying "you're a sitter" sound so ominous lol 57:37
smeeth
2025-02-18 20:26:24 +0000 UTCGetting rid of any addiction is tough as hell. I've been hitting nicotine for a couple years now and finally told myself i dont even like the feeling anymore, i just do it cause my brain needs it now. Unfortunately, I have to go the cold turkey route since my parents hate the idea of anyone in the family smoking anything (thank god they dont know i still hit za lmao). The cravings are bad, but i know soon they'll subside. To the guy from the first question, try and hold yourself accountable and fill those cravings with something healthier. And it gets easier, it really does
Louis Diaz
2025-02-18 17:18:33 +0000 UTCthree dates in one day is cunthound behavior im sorry aimen
53n831
2025-02-18 01:33:38 +0000 UTCi am not on the advice show but if the first question person is reading this, i also have struggle with controlling my vices and impulse control around food, drugs, and many things. the key for me to getting better has been just stopping and really thinking about what you're going to do before you do it, think about everything the consequences and how its most likely not worth it. that moment, however small, when you stop and think has helped me a lot. i'm not cured obviously, its a long process but i've made a lot of progress controlling myself. also, making sure you're not in the position to even partake helps a lot too. making sure certain foods are just not around, specifically ones you have the hardest time with. anyways hope you see this lol otherwise i'm speaking into the aether
julian
2025-02-18 00:40:15 +0000 UTCcunthound is crazy
julian
2025-02-18 00:33:23 +0000 UTCoink
Diego Jimenez
2025-02-18 00:15:46 +0000 UTCIt would change on a case by case basis of course but the main falling point is that if you are already dating this person and hopefully trust her, you would think that she would not cheat on you, the guy could still have interest and make a move but "your girl" is also a person, she has already rejected him once, she can do it again. It is instinctual to get worried but when you think about it I don't think there is any real reason to get worried about and the uncomfortableness is I think rooted from ingrained patriarchel thinking, In the context of "owning" your partner. I think there is no inherent difference than being chill with your partner talking with other men, since it would be the same act of trusting to not cheat etc. Im 18 btw so this is all theory, I have dated 1 person before
TheGuzzler
2025-02-17 21:41:01 +0000 UTCtell the 19 year old australian to play the silent hill 2 remake
Ian Blaze
2025-02-17 21:13:02 +0000 UTCOn the first prompt: I would disagree with the way Aimen is framing putting up barriers for yourself as this like extreme thing. Shaping our environment is something we do everyday either consciously or subconsciously, and imo if there's something you want to change, it's one of the most important tools you can use. The process doesn't have to be sudden or agonizing either, small manageable steps made over time will turn into huge lifestyle differences. The book Atomic Habits is built off that idea.
Lackaflacka
2025-02-17 21:06:07 +0000 UTCnew pay piggy here alrite mannn
AJKay
2025-02-17 20:38:33 +0000 UTCwahoo!
Faye852
2025-02-17 20:03:02 +0000 UTCPay piggies assemble
misterthezeem
2025-02-17 18:55:43 +0000 UTCFor the third prompt, the hypothetical where she got a bf: Is it really being a controlling bf if you don't want your girl to be friends with someone that confessed his love to her a year ago? yeah sure they 'moved on' but I feel like if given the opportunity he would still want to be with her. I've been in a situation similar to this and just felt uncomfortable if my girl was still messaging/ talking with someone that has confessed interest in her. Maybe I was being controlling without realizing.
Eopath
2025-02-17 18:45:19 +0000 UTChey guys loved the ep but maybe slime shouldnt have talked about invincible the entire hour? felt strange on the advice show
joe
2025-02-17 18:35:10 +0000 UTCAimen slime advice show hits different
TomBradySon
2025-02-17 18:28:51 +0000 UTCI’m a piggy for you now
TomBradySon
2025-02-17 17:45:14 +0000 UTCproud pay piggy 🐷 🫡
Breadiie
2025-02-17 17:40:55 +0000 UTCpay piggy here for my top tier slop
Quinn
2025-02-17 17:38:12 +0000 UTC
