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My work is rooted in helping clients understand the interconnection of the mind, body and spirit and how when we hold more understanding, we have more control of our lives
Our body and nervous system holds our entire life experience
Whatever we have had to suppress and what we have not processed in life, holds itself in the body and shows up in the physical through:
- illness
-zoning out / disconnect
-addiction
-lack of ability to focus
2024-04-03 20:09:35 +0000 UTC
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A main piece of my 1:1 work with men is working with the nervous system
When a man is living with what is called a, dysregulated nervous system, these show up:
-emotional reactivity vs responding
-more anger / explosive anger
-need for chronic masturbation for calming
-more overestimation from noises, etc
-more reaching for calming agents which may be drinking more often, eating more, etc
-addictions and need for spaces for disconnec...
This one practice and built skill will change everything in your life
Becoming the observer allows you choice
It opens clarity
It opens connection
It opens a new choice vs the same patterns
It opens control
How are you practicing being the observer today?
What’s new on my VIP page this week? • Foods to support Prostate health • 10 Minute Guided Relaxation Video • An easy exercise for when you don’t want to cum just yet • New Month Reflection Questions • A Fudgy + Healthy Brownie Recipe • Dancing and more 😊 Join the community Link in my bio description!
2023-08-03 16:57:16 +0000 UTC View PostDid you know - I started a 10 minutes or less relaxation / stress release series? ✨ Join me on my VIP page for weekly videos of guided relaxation and stress relief This week ( week 3 ) we incorporate: -breathwork -brain exercises -tapping -stretching and more New + expired subscribers - you can join now for just $5 for the month Over 1500 photos, 200 videos, wellness blogs, guided relaxation, personal audios, recipes and more
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Devotion 🤍 📸 : Erik Tranberg ( @eriktranberg ) Abiquiu Lake, New Mexico
2022-10-20 01:58:36 +0000 UTC View Post
I HAVE NEWS 🤍 This Thursday I am off to New Mexico where I will be traveling / shooting for / gone 3 days with a professional photographer who I have loved his work. Want to travel along behind the scenes and right beside me on my trip to New Mexico? 🤠✨ ✨For $20+ and up -you will be added to the private trip Snapchat where I will be sharing exclusives throughout my travels and the trip :) ✨For $50 and up - you are added to the Snapchat as well as will receive more exclusives j...
2022-09-26 23:26:21 +0000 UTC View Post
We were never created for labels and boxes What are you hiding away because it doesn’t fit along with the other label that is? What would happen if you honored all that is there? What happens if you stare the wild in the face? What happens if you let yourself BE - ALL? What does life look like when we step out of the boxes?
2022-08-31 01:39:09 +0000 UTC View PostWill you groove with me? 🧡 Do you have favorite songs you love to put on to dance to? This is a fun one for me :) I love to dance and to make little moments of fun in the day :) Here is 1:43 out of the 5:30 full strip dance video - full of smiles, grooving and stripping down :) ✨Tip just $7 for the full video to be sent to your inbox 🧡
2022-08-25 18:57:11 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi 💛 I just wanted to say - thank you. Thank you for every single one of you here. Know - I care deeply and that you have someone rooting for you in your corner in life :) You are a gift to this world Never forget it 💛
2022-08-18 22:17:31 +0000 UTC View Post
Our bodies were not created to be judged, compared or placed in a value system. Your body is PERFECT in - YOU Every line. Every scar. Every fold. Every color. After starting this work years back - I found myself struggling in seeing my body in the way I do now as between the continued comments of what others found perfect and appealing in me to them and then the comparison to others - it was hard to stay connected in the knowing that - my body just - is. Perfect in more than just bouncy br...
2022-08-08 14:34:06 +0000 UTC View PostStrip + Loving You ♥️ As I look you in the eyes and slowly unwrap my skirt - you taste my desire You feel my love. Watch me in this clip as I make love to you and my body from afar - in the way we lock eyes, in the way I touch my body and undress - in the way I move - love in every moment Are you ready to taste my wild? Are you ready to taste my love?
2022-08-01 22:54:17 +0000 UTC View PostTouching in the Sunlight ☀️ The morning sunlight pours through the window as I sit with my naked body soaking it all in Watch as my fingertips connect with my body and the sunlight all at once Building my touch and turn on with the morning sun The sunlight as it veils all of my lips The way it shapes over my body Come - watch me 6 minutes of LOVE
2022-08-01 22:41:54 +0000 UTC View PostSensual Naked Stretch 🪞✨ Join me in watching me from behind me as I am on my knees in prayer pose - I slowly stroke stretch and connect with my naked body to the music in this 2 minute clip
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Have you ever had your body worshiped by a lover? ❤️ This - is medicine. If yes - ~ How did it feel? ~ Did any emotions come through during your time of fully receiving this worship?
2022-07-25 14:36:38 +0000 UTC View PostConnecting with your Cock 🤍✨ Join me in my FREE introduction video for my new cock connection video bundle where I talk about the beauty and importance in spending time in connection with your cock! ~ Have you ever spent time honoring your own cock? Worshiping it? ~ Have you ever gazed at its perfection as it is? Without the sexual aspect - have you or do you spend time loving and showing your cock love? With touch or even without? Thanking it? Your cock is desiring of deep conne...
2022-07-18 20:25:46 +0000 UTC View Post
FREE 4 minute guided audio exercise is up on my VIP page for subscribers 🤍 💭Did you know SOUND is a direct pathway to opening ourselves and our bodies deeper into pleasure? Allowing those moans during sex or self pleasure vs quieting ourselves or shaming what desires to be released. In my new exercise - we are using our breath in combination with the releasing of sounds to aid relaxation as well as build sexual energy in your body! Notice in day to day life when you are holding bac...
2022-06-15 22:36:47 +0000 UTC View Post
My care and deepest intention for all of my work as a creator and support guide / coach is to create a space for you to dive further into connection with - everything 💛 With - Life. Yourself and your soul. Your relationships. The world around you. Your feelings. Your body. Your touch. Your energy. Everything - Deeper. 💭In our world today - we have normalized disconnection and distraction. ~ It is normalized for us to choose to disconnect. Rushing through touch with our bodies or sex...
2022-06-02 16:14:38 +0000 UTC View PostOur minds race to get to the ending but the heart opening bliss is waiting in - each moment. Each moment- carries gold. When we slow down and feel the layers within the the present moment - we feel the true meaning of - bliss. I invite you- take some time throughout the day and slow down with some gentle touches and connection with your body. 💭How does it feel to breathe, slow? Touch, slow? It may iginite feelings within you and in this - I also invite you to say hello to them vs ...
2022-05-11 21:49:52 +0000 UTC View PostDancing is one of my favorite ways to bring energy into the body! ✨What are your favorite songs to groove to? ✨ Join me on my VIP page for this full length dance video sent right to your inbox as well as much more dancing together 💛✨
2022-04-29 18:20:02 +0000 UTC View Post
What is your relationship with LIFE? ✨💭 Our relationship with life reflects into every other relationship we have - with sex, with any partners / romantic relationships, with money, with work, with responsibility, communication and more. Reflecting on this one question can offer deep wisdom into us. • Do we often choose to disconnect in life? • Do we more often lead ourselves or follow in life? • Do you often rush or focus on an end or the destination vs enjoying the moment? ...
2022-04-26 15:55:05 +0000 UTC View Post
We are not separate from Nature We breathe and live, as one May we love our Earth, every day 🌎
2022-04-23 02:44:35 +0000 UTC View Post🚨 NEW VIDEO - Performance Anxiety Performance anxiety is, natural and, human. Whether it comes up within communicating, expressing, dating, during sex or physical intimacy or whatever else - it is our body and mind simply trying to keep us SAFE and PROTECT US. When it comes up - it is trying to protect us from rejection, not having that clarity and security of knowing, messing up or “failing”, not being as good as another, etc. Every single one of us can relate feeling PA, even if ...
2022-04-22 18:09:38 +0000 UTC View Post🚨 NEW VIDEO 🚨 Why doing THIS before a date, having sex or having an important conversation is beneficial - ~ SOLO PRACTICE ~ -What does that mean? -Why is it beneficial? This video goes into 2 reasons why solo practices are key before having sex, going on a date and more 👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻 #1. They guide us out of the MIND ✨ The mind often leads our experiences for us, even without us consciously knowing. The mind is not the truth. It is our projections,...
2022-04-20 21:26:38 +0000 UTC View Post
✨4 tips to breathing for relaxation ✨ 👉🏻1. Breathe through your NOSE vs your mouth. Breathing through the nose helps bring our nervous system into the parasympathetic state which is the state of calm where as mouth breathing, activates and energizes the mind and body. 👉🏻2. Place your tongue at the roof of your mouth when you’re breathing! This one tip can bring so many benefits! -It helps keep the body directed toward the parasympathetic / calm state as the tongue pres...
2022-04-01 16:08:31 +0000 UTC View Post🕯✨Why explore our body? ✨🕯 This 1 practice of taking time out just to explore the body. It’s powerful and will change your life. To begin to learn and know the body on a deeper level only benefits us for every aspect of our lives. How? It helps - • In becoming more connected to ourselves • In becoming more confident in our body • In learning more about our boundaries, likes, dislikes and desires • It helps us learn how to spark pleasure for ourselves in a variety of p...
2022-03-31 22:40:31 +0000 UTC View Post♥️ Massaging the cock ♥️ (( $5 For the Full 13 Minute Video )) Did you know massaging your cock has its benefits? 👉🏻 Tip just $5 on the post here for the full 13 minute video! ♥️ I will send it to your inbox! 👉🏻Cock massage helps in stress reduction and relief 👉🏻It also helps with our body’s circulation and much more Intentionally taking time out of the day to connect with your cock simply to massage it, gently stretch and touch it with love as well as b...
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